“Islands in the stream, that is what we are.” – Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers
Checked out of your relationship?
Today its another stagnant day in your relationships. There are many things about it you like, and others annoy the hell out of you. Shouldn’t there be passion, fun and great conversation? Instead, you’re bored, numb and going through the motions.
You ask a lot of questions and doubt your former certainty about the relationship. Were things ever really that good? You don’t recognize the person in the mirror and cringe. You question your attraction to your partner and if they are the same person you fell in love with.
Things weren’t supposed to end up like this.
You were supposed to ride off into the sunset with a partner you were crazy about. Restlessness, pressure and exhaustion fill your body as you contemplate what to do. You’ve invested a lot of time and emotions, but you’re on the fence as to whether you should break it off or not. Indecision rules each day.
There is no abuse in your relationship and you speak respectfully to one another. Shouldn’t that be enough? You begin to wonder if what you thought a relationship was supposed to be are even your own values or if you family or community set you up for a life you don’t jive with.
You need help.
I have worked with clients for years gain clarity on how to move forward in their traditional or unconventional relationships. I’ll help you create and individualized plan as unique as your coupling. We will work together on assessments of your situation, philosophies to consider, and actionable tools that lead to clarity on whether to stay or whether to go.
Many couples come to me unsure of what the exact issues are, or they blame each other for the problems. In addition to clarity, we can pinpoint what practices can help you grow closer again, even if its in a totally new way unrecognizable by the two people who originally fell in love.
I’m honored to be your guide.
Come with me on your journey from ambiguity to clarity. Regain your autonomy as an individual. Understand what is in your control to change. Identify red flags with confidence. Learn how to accept what you can’t change. Create inner peace. Celebrate the joys & new wins.
Reach out today to get started with figuring out next steps.